4 Fit Mommies: Sticking to a Budget During the Holidays

The holidays can be a stressful time of year, and money is one of the leading causes of holiday anxiety for Americans.

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The best time for holiday budgeting begins early in the year, when smart shoppers account for expenses associated with the holiday gift season in their monthly budgets and buy presents here and there throughout the year.
Additionally, resourceful budgeters flock to stores AFTER Christmas to scoop up decorations at bargain bin prices with an eye toward future holidays.
However, if you’re like most people, you likely have not planned very far ahead and could find yourself feeling the pinch in January. But don’t despair—with proper accounting and a handful of smart shopping ideas, it is possible to find the perfect gift for everyone on your list and stay within your budget.
Here are a few pointers to help you stick to your holiday budget and manage your seasonal financial stress:
• Make a list and check it twice. Review your shopping list carefully. Does everyone listed on it truly need to be there?
• Set limits. Write down a maximum dollar limit for each person, vow to stay within that limit and then track how much you actually spend.
• Shop early. The best window for holiday shopping is between Oct. 1 and Dec. 1. Give yourself time to compare prices and find the best deals. You aren’t likely to save money if you wait until the last minute.
• Buy in bulk. Have something on hand for those unexpected presents. A case of wine, elegant candles or a tin of homemade cookies are great ideas.
• Be realistic. Ask yourself if you can really afford to buy gifts—don’t feel obligated to buy them if you can’t afford them. A good rule of thumb is to leave the credit cards at home, and if you don’t have the cash for it, don’t buy it. Also be sure to avoid store-specific credit cards, which can charge exorbitantly high interest rates.
• Talk to your friends and family about scaling back. Ask about doing a gift exchange instead of buying gifts for everyone. If you find these things too embarrassing or unworkable consider going the homemade gift route.
• Shop online. Some of the best bargains won’t be found in stores. Many retailers will waive shipping costs during the holidays. Plus, why spend the days before your holiday celebrations wasting gas and battling crowds for items that may not be in stock?
• Get a holiday job. Even with a good budget, the extra holiday shopping can pinch the pocketbook. Consider working a seasonal job.

Parenting, You’re Doing It Differently and That’s OK!

Love!! So unbelievably simple and true. As parents we should be supporting each other, not judging each other.

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I am SO sick of people judging others for trying to do the right thing. We are all living on this God forsaken planet together, raising our babies, etc. can’t we just get along? Here’s a few things about me that relate to what I’m talking about:

I circumcised my sons (GASP!!!) I know, I’m a terrible mother right? Cutting up my baby boys. How dare I. I did not circumcise my sons to make sex less pleasurable for them, to prevent them from masturbating, or because I think an uncircumcised penis looks ugly, I did it because I believe it is cleaner. I felt I did what was best for my sons and I chose to have it done while they were infants so they wouldn’t remember the pain. I cried while they were getting the procedure not because I felt I had done the wrong thing, but because…

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Stressed Mom or Blessed Mom?

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Lately, I’ve been waking up before the crack of dawn, like 5:30 am crack of dawn. I am a super fan of sleeping in, however I can’t remember the last time that it happened. In the past, as a career teacher, I would struggle to get up, waiting to the last minute to roll out of my comfy bed, and sleepily dress myself with my eyes half open. Thankfully, my mom advised me to keep my closet stocked with black pants and coordinating tops to create a makeshift uniform stockpile. I would then drink a pot of coffee, rush to get my son off to school, and attempt not to get a ticket on the 30 minute commute to hell. Makeup and a ponytail were left until I reached the parking lot of the middle school, and just in the nick of time. I was never late, just not comfortable…

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